Hello!
Me and my boyfriend are trying to introduce his 2 male cats(neutered recently) to my cat (been neutered since he was adopted via shelter) his cats are roughly 1 years old and orange while mine is almost 4 years old.
For context on their personalities
Cat 1(Neji the main issue) is relatively sweet, food is his life, can be cuddly. We did have an issue May of last year with him being spiteful towards me. He would pee on my stuff and he did pee on me twice. He used too (now had stopped) poop on the floor right next to the litter box.
Cat 2(Zane hardly any issues) he’s extremely friendly, loves attention will meow at you til he gets loves. No issues with him he’s a sweetie
Cat 3(Curtis my cat) he’s a chill cat, doesn’t really do much but wanna play and cuddle! Not a fighter he’s a more relaxed version of Zane
Now to my question and what I’ve tried to do. Since we brought Curtis to the house from my mom’s on Christmas, he has been in the bedroom. The only times he came out is when his first few nights he ran out, when we switched them out to let Curtis understand his surroundings, then the last time was when we got Neji and Zane neutered. It’s been almost a month and small progress has been seen with Zane only. Neji is actively preying at the bedroom door. Since they was just at the vet and they do full exams before the surgery they never mentioned anything wrong with Neji. They said Neji is a healthy boy. I also scent swap with their beds and an old top of mine since then, i gotten a calming cat diffuser, calming care supplements, treats etc. i feed them their wet foods at the same time, i increased treats and play time. My boyfriend when he isn’t working he does the same. I’m really at a loss, just 10 minutes before typing this out Neji ran in the room when i was walking out to use the bathroom(I’m sick rn so I’m having a hard time breathing from chasing him out) he almost attacked Curtis again. The first time was just before we could get them neutered and my boyfriend hands was badly bitten and scratched from trying to grab Neji. Again Zane doesn’t seem to care Curtis is here he wants to be friends with him.
I just want help i love all 3 of them and i would be grateful for any advice. I would hate to give my sweet boy back to my mom. She lives an hour away and i have no way to get there without a ride to see him more. It’s very hard to not let them see each other because of Neji preying and Zane is always by his brother side.
By - Myoplc
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